John Stuart Gardiner

January 1, 1936 – October 6, 2025

It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of John Stuart Gardiner who left us peacefully in his 90th year on October 6, 2025, surrounded by his four children and loved ones. Born on New Year's Day 1936 in Simcoe, Ontario. Predeceased by his parents Ralph and Mabel Gardiner and his brother Ronald Gardiner.  In 2020 he lost Martha (nee Schnitchen) his soulmate and foundation of 60 years.  She was, and always is, a constant presence in his, and the family's lives. Both John and Martha lived their lives selflessly and dedicated their existence mostly for the benefit of their kids, grandkids, great- grandkids, and really anyone close, who required love and support.

John is lovingly remembered by his children: Matthew (Lisa), Michael, James (Holly), and Kate.  John (Papa) is also survived by his cherished grandchildren: Max (Vanessa), Alec, Ian, Hailey, Andrew, Lucas, Marais and John. Also missed by his beloved great-grandchildren: Aniyah, Delaney, Aubrey, Truth, and Khosen.   John will be fondly remembered by his sister Joan Schmitt (Hans), his brother Denys Gardiner (Sharon), and his brother-in-law Frank Schnitchen (Carol). He is also survived by numerous nieces and nephews, several Godchildren and by all those who affectionately knew him as "Uncle John."

John spent over 30 years with Horton Chicago Bridge & Iron (CBI), specializing in the pulp and paper industry. His work took him across the globe, where he represented CBI with dedication, and integrity. Eventually, CBI recognized that John's expertise was best suited for their head office, that being in Chicago. In true Canadian Voyageur fashion, John and Martha packed up the lot, filled a moving-truck with all possessions, and crammed two adult humans, four child humans (10 yrs old and under) and a dog (Duke)—into a 1973 Mercury Montego woody station wagon, and emigrated from Canada to the suburbs of Chicago.

The family spent 6 years in the U.S., an experience that surely broadened their horizons and created lifelong memories and friends. In 1979, they returned to Fort Erie, where John continued to pour all his energy into his work. Perhaps one of the last of a generation to spend a lifetime with one company, John's tireless work ethic and extensive travel schedule were a testament to his commitment to the job, of which, he surely loved. Though his career often kept him away from Martha and the kids, he carried that burden with grace and humour—eventually joking that the kids were "un-coachable anyway."

All kidding aside, John's alluring personality, intelligence, class and humour, educated those around him by example. A lasting impression on everyone he met. His humour was legendary—his one-liners and idioms, lovingly referred to as "Dad-isms" or "John-isms," will live on through his grandchildren as "Papa-isms." We will quote him often and strive to emulate his character for the rest of our lives.

The family would like to extend heartfelt thanks to Dr. Spencer for his many years of care, and to Dr. Kim Scher for his compassionate and tireless support in John's final months—He is a true treasure to this town. Special thanks also go to the compassionate professionals at Douglas Memorial Hospital's Palliative Care Ward. A special mention to Sarah, Chiara, Marla, Faith, Adryanna, Emilie and Deanna, at DMH. Also, a very appreciative mention to the crew at Port Colborne Hospital Palliative Care Ward.  All these rock stars at both hospitals put their hearts and souls into every moment of care. They are the epitome of humility and humanity—qualities that define our Canadian identity—and they should never be taken for granted. Douglas Memorial Hospital itself should, and must, exist for generations to come. It is an exemplary institution in our town that needs to be preserved.

A special thank you to Carol Overholt, John's partner-in-fun during his final years. Carol brought joy, laughter, and companionship into his life, unequivocally extending his time on this planet in the most meaningful way. Whilst he attempted to make her a better euchre player, she encouraged him to sing, dance, and teach him the proper technique for dabbing multiple bingo cards.  Most importantly perhaps, she re-introduced him to Joie de Vivre.

A gathering of all, who wish to celebrate John's life, will be held on Saturday, October 18th, from 5:00 pm to 9:00 PM at the Bridgewater Country Club banquet room. Please join us for cocktails and hors d'oeuvres, to reminisce over old photos, re-tell some surely embellished stories, make up a few fresh ones, and maybe even sing some karaoke in his honour.

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly asks that you consider donating to DMH Auxiliary, or a cause close to your heart, or even giving your time to something civically or spiritually important.

Rest easy, Father. Rest easy, Papa. Rest easy, Uncle John